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The Birth Of Amelie


As a belated post for International Women's Day (which was a few days ago but I had no wifi to post! Nightmare!) I’d like to take this opportunity to share, with her permission, Naomi’s positive VBAC birth story (written by herself). I was lucky enough to be present at this wonderful birth as Naomi’s doula and I can’t thank her and her family enough for letting me be a part of it.

So, let’s celebrate all the wonderful, strong, brave and loving women out there! You are amazing. Keep sharing your stories and inspiring others.

The Birth of Amelie

“For the previous two weeks I had been getting lots of braxton hicks and had lost my complete mucous plug, but was determined not to get my hopes up about going into early labour as I went a week overdue with Dylan and I found it so hard waiting. I tried to keep in my head that I would go overdue this time too so that I wasn't disappointed. I went to bed on the Tuesday evening and had absolutely no signs of labour except from my bump had dropped quite low throughout the day (I was 39+2). I slept so well and got a full 8 hours sleep. My alarm went off at 7.45am to get Dylan up and ready for nursery, so I snoozed and got him up at 8 and Ben got in the shower. I shouted through to Ben in the bathroom because I got such a big pain in my stomach but wasn't sure what it was as I didn't think I could get such a painful contraction with no build up. He carried on showering and I found myself bent double over our bed breathing through 4 contractions in 10 minutes with poor Dylan watching me wondering what was going on! So I shouted Ben again and he got out of the shower and got dressed and took Dylan downstairs. I called maternity triage who could hear how regular my contractions were and how much pain I was in and they said to go straight to the birth centre there and then. So Ben called Dylan's nursery to warn them we were on our way with him and that he'd not had time for any breakfast. I called my doula Amy to let her know we were on our way to the birth centre, she said she would leave and meet us there. I also called my mum as she was supposed to be having Dylan while I was in labour but I asked her to come and see her granddaughter being born instead as luckily it had fallen on a nursery day! We all got in the car for the most uncomfortable journey and we were so lucky that it was half term so there was hardly any traffic bearing in mind we were driving towards Manchester city centre in rush hour! When we got near to nursery I was in so much pain I said to Ben don't take Dylan to his room, just drop him in the office and get back to the car quickly, I felt like the baby was coming soon. So 10 minutes later we arrived at the birth centre and Amy my doula had just arrived before us. The midwives took us into the most gorgeous room with twinkle lights, soft waterfall sound effects and a big projector on the wall with waterfall videos, it was so relaxing. They got me on the futon to examine me and she said that I was 4cm dilated, fully effaced and my waters were bulging. She said I could get straight in the birthing pool and have the gas and air which I did. I forgot how amazing the gas and air is... the hallucinations! And the warm water was so soothing on my back. I remember at one point feeling a bit panicky about my scar rupturing and asking the midwife if I was showing any signs of scar rupture. And then I panicked that the baby would get stuck like last time and asked her if the baby was back to back like last time. She answered no to both questions and reminded me that this was a different birth and to trust my body. Amy made me 3 cups of tea which I downed in the pool, and we all had a laugh that I was alternating between gas and air and cups of tea (fab combination by the way!) Like Dylans birth, Ben was the official gas and air holder and my friendly face for when i was in crazy amounts of pain. Then as things were ramping up my mum arrived which I was so glad about. She was holding a cool flannel on my head and it was just generally soothing to have my mum there."

"I felt so safe surrounded by the people I chose to be at my birth and it was so completely different to my poor experience from Dylan's birth. Soon after my mum arrived my body started to push involuntarily. I didn't need to be examined, I just knew that I must be fully dilated and my body knew what to do. I looked down between my legs as I thought I had pushed the baby's head out but it was actually part of the sack full of waters that hadn't burst yet, so surreal to see! At this point the midwife used the Doppler and couldn't find baby's heart rate so very quickly her and the second midwife said I needed to get out of the pool immediately. I was so worried as it was like history repeating itself, they had to get me out of the pool as an emergency when I gave birth to Dylan. As I got out of the pool I could feel her head crowning and the midwife could obviously see it too as she put her hand between my legs in case the baby came out! As soon as I was out of the water the pain was so intense as the gas and air had worn off and I had no other kind of pain relief in my system. I laid on the futon and begged for the gas and air but everyone was more focussed on the baby coming out so I didn't get my gas and air back! The next contraction came and I pushed so hard and her head was born, then one more push and she was in my arms crying! The sense of achievement straight away was just incredible and a week on I still can't believe that I achieved a vaginal birth after so many professionals told me I couldn't do it. I also specified in my birth plan that I wanted a physiological third stage which I'm glad about as the placenta came naturally around 10 minutes later. We waited until the cord had stopped pulsating completely and Ben got to cut the cord this time which we were so happy about. My doula Amy managed to get some amazing photos of the labour and birth which I'm so happy about as we only got one photo of when Dylan was born. I honestly feel like I would do it all over again, I'm so thrilled I got the birth I wished for all along.”


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